Need babysitting advice... (txt)

[Avondster]

Okay, my job pays pretty much nothing, and I'm trying to find something on the side for paying all my expensive holidays.

My mother found me this babysitting address, who would very much like to have me. I would not hesitate, since I often look after my friend's kids (for free).

The thing is: these people have infant triplets! That's three baby boys I have to look after at the same time. It's bound to be hard work, and they're just so tiny and fragile. I have looked after babies plenty of times, but not three together. Anyone got any advice?

[Lady of Light]

I baby sat twins one time when I was a teenager and it was really hard. One wants food and then the other starts screaming to eat. And just when you get them asleep one would wake up crying and wakes the other. I can't imagine what triplets would be like. Maybe you could get a friend to help you and split the pay. I know it takes away from your money but it would at least bring you some money and still keep you sanity doing it. Good luck

[lindorie]

It doesnt sound like you have actually talked to the family. Do so, and see how they do things. With multiples, some parents really have the kids quite regimented so that you aren't doing things as constantly as you are afraid that you will be. We had neighbors who had triplets when I was a kid. They were toddlers, and as sweet as could be. I never had to babysit, but I probably would have, had they asked.

Go ahead and talk to the parents and meet the kids. Nothing says you have to say yes until after you've done that.

[Primula]

I suppose it would be rather like working in a church nursery. Give each one what they need in turn and wear earplugs so you can remain calm even if they bellow. Good luck!

[Tiger-lily]

Other than the advice you already have received (excellent advice at that), just make sure you get paid well. A lot of people who have multiples like to be cheap. Also, it may be a good idea to go over to the house while the parents are there so you can see what kind of routine they are on! That way you know what you are in for!!


GOOD LUCK!!

p.s. my ist job was as a babysitter. back in those days, 2 dollars an hour for 3 screaming kids!!

[Elven_Maiden]

Aside from all the good advise you'v alreadt been given, I would say that you should take a friend with you, as LoL said not only to help with the children, but because that will show the parents how responsible you are. And parents who are umpressed pay more, and reccomend you to thier freids. Thats what happened to me when I was asked to sit for people with 5 kids all under 7. but be sure to make sur it's OK you bring a helper along.

[Avondster]

... to meet the little ones and their parents. I have never in my life met such easy-going babies! The three of them are all smiles at nearly five months, never cried once when I was there, only one of them fussed a bit when he was put to bed.

You know, I really think I am able to do this! There's an exact schedule of when to do what with whom, and my mom lives just around the corner should I need help.

Will keep you updated!

[hobbitgirly]

Yes you can do it
Sounds like fun baby sitting did a little when I was younger and that went well.
Don't have any advice though
Do tell how it was the first time